Uncontrollably Nourished

exit victim > enter superstardom

A two-week self-paced coaching program where you’ll let go of living for others’ approval and learning how to let your instinct create both incredible art AND a beautiful life.

High achieving creative—

You’re a profoundly sensitive, imaginative, smart-as-hell visionary with a deep pull to use your art to shake the world alive— and up till now, your strategy to “get there” is to be a perfectionist machine, a meticulous master of your craft.

Each day arrives with a churning stomach, accompanied by “I’m so overwhelmed and behind on all the things I need to do…”

You ask for advice or reassurance from your peers and mentors when your motivation runs out, sometimes multiple times per day or week.

But the thing that stumps you?

You resist taking action on their advice and, despite your best efforts, end up energy-broke more often than you’d like to admit.

You long to finally prove to yourself that YOU ARE CAPABLE of showing up to write your novel, produce your album, finish your screenplay—

which you intellectually know requires dedication, devotion and daily action…

…but this level of commitment is impossible when using validation, reassurance and checking off every step of your “I Did It Perfectly” checklist as your sugar high.

You ready to find SUSTAINABLE, long-burning fuel in order to create the body of work you’re meant to steward in this lifetime.

Okay, love. I’ve got you.

I am a recovered Perfectionist Robot, and I know this life WELL.

I was a full-scholarship artist at internationally known classical music festivals and even world-premiered a violin concerto to an audience of thousands, all while mired in self-doubt and barely keeping myself afloat through the candy rush of commiserating with and venting to my peers.

And when I left classical music behind and moved into the tech world, I developed and led professional development programming for a 5k-person organization running on fumes, motivated by the apparition of relief, love & approval I thought I could acquire by doing it all up to the gate-kept standard. 

Once I let go of the I-must-suffer-in-order-to-belong-and-to-be-loved identity,

I realized that my most reliable fuel for creating potent art came from

my wild, “irresponsible”, uncontrollable DESIRES—

and I began aligning my actions and repairing my trust with my original instincts.

The result?

I nourished myself to a point of overflowing energy, allowing me to build a body of work as an indie musical artist, each song a thumbprint completely unique to my individual expression. 

I created a somatic coaching practice that helps creatives get free of their perfectionist conditioning— helping them write books & screenplays, showing up as visionary leaders in their careers.

I DEVOTED MYSELF TO CREATING MY VISIONS, day after day: No external validation needed.

Praise for the work

Unshame your first instincts,

work skillfully with your emotions and beliefs,

and shift your identity to one of a superstar—

the person who can create anything

What we’re covering

  • Grieving the Victim Identity

    Learn how reaching for external sources of energy like validation, reassurance and performing up to Other People’s Standards for motivation is keeping you exhausted.

    Explore the beliefs that bind you to the Victim Identity, and how to release them to make room for a new source of fuel: DESIRE.

  • The First Instinct Strategy

    Everything you were taught was wrong about you is actually right. Discover what your true instinct FEELS LIKE and learn how to begin following it to make decisions in your relationships, daily routines & creative projects. 

  • Anthropology of Success

    Build a library of your own bespoke wins, tracking the growing stockpile of energy you’ve cultivated and the trust you’ve restored with yourself— which gives you a path to follow when you get hooked by perfectionist conditioning.

Includes

~2 hrs 30 mins of in-depth training videos where you’ll let go of keeping yourself powerless, learn how to listen to your instincts & stack up your WINS as you set boundaries and get back to making art again

A two-week immersion with a daily mini-training, prompt or off-the-cuff riff to keep you motivated & inspired as you learn how to let your body & intuition lead

$222

80% off for Black Friday using code UBBLACKFRIDAY24
until December 1st at 11:30pm MST

Here’s what’s waiting for you with this knowledge, embodied…

🌱 Swinging your feet out of bed onto the floor with PEACE radiating from your heart outwards, feeling contented excitement about the day ahead. 

🥰 More time spent truly connecting with friends & partners over entertaining stories, debating about what’s actually the song of the summer, playing board games— because you’re no longer re-hashing your life struggles with them twice a week. 

💃🏻 Showing off a giant pile of your own creations at your next show or on social media, feeling proud of the daily dedication you’ve put in for MONTHS in a row, creating a body of work… and you know you’re just getting started.

Uncontrollably Nourished

Start now.

Your wildly fulfilling artistic career is waiting for you.

80% off for Black Friday using code UBBLACKFRIDAY24
until December 1st at 11:30pm MST

Questions? Reach out to Kate on Instagram: @unlearnbecome